Monday, March 22, 2010

Emersion to the Villages


@ The Brothel - HIV-AIDS Testing
Part of CINI’s programs is to conduct free quarterly HIV-AIDS testing for the sexual workers in various parts in West Bengal. I was invited to observe this testing day to one of its registered brothel near Pailan. We stopped in a small community by the highway and entered a narrow passageway by foot, almost concealed from the main highway. I was led into a small structure with 2 adjacent small rooms for the doctor’s office and laboratory. So this was it, the CINI Health Clinic for sex workers. I was welcomed by the 3 staff inside the clinic. The blood technician was doing her rounds of HIV AIDS testing in her room with all her testing gadgets – surgical gloves, syringes and needles, and vials for the blood. While doing her task, another project staff gave me a free demonstration on how to use female and male condoms using a wooden model of a HUGE male sex organ (I don’t know if it’s the standard size or the biggest one, I’ll have to find that out…ooops censored X). Took pictures of the demonstration but erased it afterwards because I’m afraid that my mom might see them when I get back home to the Philippines, yikes!
(Note for picture on top: Condom dispenser found in the CINI Health Clinic)

After that, I was whisked by the peer leader (‘mama-san’ in Japanese language) to the rows of dilapidated square quarters at the back of the clinic and I was surprised it is already the brothel! The Brothel looks like a rundown, war torn shabby tiny cement ruble structures. Beside these structures are piled garbage areas where I saw barefooted children (sons and daughters of the sex workers) playing with some garbage particles. At the corner, there is like a compound with quarters for the single sex workers and those with children and ‘dada’ (a big brother, who acts as their marketing/sales officer, otherwise known as the ‘Pimp’) have separate structures. They said they pay for the space or room for doing sex work out of their proceeds. Since CINI operated its clinic in the area, there is quite considerable degree of increase in the purchase of condoms by sex workers. They became more aware of the health risks involved in their profession but the business continues because what else can they do for a living.

There are around 76 sexual workers, ages from 20-55 years old (but I saw some who look like between 15-18 years old) registered in this brothel. Some came from other states and some grew up in the same community brothel. Felt sad thinking about this way of living but this is the reality. Seeing the children’s eyes full of hope and their smiles full of energy for life, made my heart felt depressed for awhile by the thought of what their future might become.

Now is not the season for sex business. August – October are the season period because of ‘Durga Puja’ holiday, where people celebrate their goddess of energy ‘Durga’ or ‘ sometimes called ‘Lakshmi’. Celebration is like that of Christmas. Colorful lights across the streets, beautifully adorned ‘Pandals’ and workers happily receiving their holiday pay are main attractions of this season. Many tourists come to enjoy the festivities for the whole month of September, and as such businesses are flourishing. Therefore, more businessmen come in to the brothel for relaxation and more pleasure.

@ Sundurban - Community Visit
CINI has an affiliated community organization in Sundarbans, the place is famous for the Royal Bengal tigers and boat ride. Sundarbans is a huge fishing area divided by Bangladesh and West Bengal, India. It is a very quite remote and peaceful town with tribal fishing villages along the coast of Bengal. We rode a car all the way to Sundarbans for 4 hours and ate ‘Muri’ along the way. Muri is composed of puffed rice cooked in heated sand, which after cooking, it is shifted from the sand and topped with roasted peanuts. It sure is a crunchy snack that can be eaten anytime of the day.

Before, you can only reach Sundarbans by riding a boat. Now, there is already bridge connecting the island to West Bengal’s District 24 Purganas (South). Missed the boat ride, but it was interesting to see that most of the houses are made of ‘Mud’ as walls with Rice ‘Straws’ or stone ‘Bricks’ as roof. CINI Director said the typical village families start their homes with rice straw roof, as the family progressed they replaced it with real ‘bricks’. So, houses can be a social and economic status symbol in the villages where scheduled caste system is practiced (Don’t ask me to write about this part, way beyond my understanding or capacity to understand since I’m from a casteless society). In every mud house there are piles of hay stock for their animal feeding and roof replacement. A small pond can also be normally seen in front of their houses where they can bath and wash their clothes. Vast farm lands of crops like chili and wheat and rice paddies can be seen along the long road going to the community we were supposed to go. Sundarbans is one of the producers of best chilies in India.
CINI established a sister organization in the community called Baikunthupur Sishu Seva Kendra (means Woman & Child Health in Baikanthupur Village) in 1978. The organization has been operating for 30 years or so, a little bit younger than CINI but they have similar work and services. Went to take some touring around Sundarban’s river dock and saw boats arrived with people climbing up the dock and placing their goods on the rickshaw vans waiting along the dock’s catwalk. Two women were sorting out fishes dried out on the dock’s platform. I smelled ‘fishy’ when I got home because I accidentally stepped on the small fishes lying along the dock. I didn’t know they were left to dry under the sun for some villagers’ food supply. The best part is my lunch with the people of BSSK, the CINI Director and the Assistant Director who graciously permitted me to travel with them to Sundarbans. My lunch was composed of shrimp cooked in curry, fish (one was fried and another was cooked with aloo and red chili), 2 vegetable meals and tons of desserts: mishti doi, rasgula, and tomato chutney. I almost pigged myself out there.

@ Reproductive Health Training
It was a rainy day when the team held their ‘Dai’ Training. ‘Dai’ is a Bengali term for “Midwives” or the person who assists birth delivery. However, these ‘Dai’ women are not registered or trained in medical field unlike the midwives. They were just born and called to deliver births in their respective villages. They are mostly old village women. “Dai” women practice proper way of birthing method…

It is sad to know that most of the village people do not go to clinics and hospitals because they are afraid to be cut or given medicines they are not familiar with. They are used to traditional birthing methods and herbal medicines that may not be hygienic and consequently create health problems and even deaths for the mothers and their babies. Consequently, there are more unregistered births in India than we can imagine. Thus, these kids born in the villages may never go to school due to lack of personal registration papers.

This program in training these “Dai” women is to create awareness on them that there are appropriate and hygienic procedures in assisting birth deliveries and to encourage them to refer expectant mothers to go to hospitals for proper facilities and methods in birth delivery. Since, one cannot control village mothers to whom they will go for delivery, these ‘Dai’ women are taught the proper and hygienic way through the RHT (Reproductive Health Training), a joint project of CINI and West Bengal Government. Twenty-Nine ‘Dai’ ladies attended this particular 3-day training and this is the 2nd batch conducted by CINI. They were all cheerful, active, and eager to learn the proper ways of child birth delivery.

Sunday, March 7, 2010

My Unforgettable Gatherings in CINI

Rabindranath Tagore’s Bday Tribute
May 15, 2009
This happened after a month in my placement. Never knew I could sing Bengali Song that easy. My Bengali Music Teachers were awesome and patient and very appreciative that I could easily learn to sing like a Bengali.
This is a regular celebration in CINI. As do all Bengali people, they worship Rabindranath Tagore with all their hearts because this world famous poet happens to be from Bengal. There is a mystique aura in Kolkata that I have experienced myself. I never knew I could write poems from the heart until I came to this land of most cows and romantic poetry. Despite walking side by side with cows along the narrow village roads, seeing men in skirts, smelling unending cues of garbage and exchanging smiles with small children with tattered clothes (sometimes without it) barefoot from the deep well carrying heavy tin water jars, I could still find solace to write such heartfelt words into love poems. I wonder if Tagore upon writing his love poems felt like I did in my dreamy state of writing.
Anyhow, I performed a song number of one of Tagore’s love poems during the program tribute. I felt it was my baptism of fire because they would surely send me back to the Philippines if I had disappointed Tagore’s fans. Fortunately, I passed with flying colors. My heart soured around the campus for several days with their unending praises for my brave singing stunt in front of about 100 CINI staff. Thanks to the CINI International Manager who patiently assisted me in my singing lessons. Bengali people indeed are very appreciative people!










CINI 36th Anniversary
February 1, 2010
This was a fun experience for me. I felt the members of community of CINI are very close to each other. CINI people from other branches came to celebrate this event in the CINI head office, my placement. Almost all female staff wore their best sarees and men wore their best suits. It was like a star-studded affair with bollywood actors and actresses.

The Program was graced by a Minister of West Bengal. There were speeches at the first half given by some prominent government officials and CINI Directors and the second half was given to the invited cultural dancers and singers. Socializing and relaxing with CINI Staff and Officers at the CINI garden yard was a treat because they were so sweet and friendly. Again, I was given a considerable amount of attention and praise for wearing a pink sari for this special occasion, “Beautiful!” the Director exclaimed upon seeing me and commented I should have worn a Filipiniana Costume like Imelda Marcos (the famous former First Lady of the Philippines in 1960-1990) in puffed sleeves! The ladies, on the other hand, commented I look like a “Doll” wearing the pink soft sari (ears flapping!). The best part of the program was the morning snacks and lunch. Awesome food! 

Tuesday, March 2, 2010

Colours of Holi


Holi is a Hindu celebration on the changing of seasons from winter to summer or spring, whatever. Yes, the winter is officially over here in Kolkata. It is also fun filled activity for their Hindu god, Krishna who is fond of throwing colors to his followers. Holi is a regular annual event where residents in the CINI campus organized activities for the day with their families, friends and CINI guests. This paint throwing and fun celebration is a whole day affair. 10 am in the morning is the official start of the fun where different artificial colors, in powder or in liquid forms, are on display for everyone to use. There are different kinds of how to color your neighbors face and body in the Holi way. One is the famous one called slapping but not slapping too hard because it might cause some injuries. Slapping is good for making handprints on your neighbor’s bare thighs, legs and arms. Another is throwing the powder on the hair or at the back of your neighbor. This is great for having nice powdery color effect on your hair, good signature art for the hair and creates nice reflection under the sun. The third one is called massage. This will create a long lasting color stain on your neighbor’s face for a great Holi look and classical Holi expression. Pour some colored powder on your palm and massage you neighbor’s face, on the cheeks, forehead, arms, legs or neck. The forth one is the splashing water-based liquid colors using a bottle or a plastic water gun from kids. All you have to do is snatch the water gun from the kid and replenish the content from a bucket water based colors provided along for the Holi then aim to your intended victim, pull the plastic trigger and wham! A nice color splat on your neighbor’s face or clothes. The next and last one is through the bucket itself. When there’s no more color powder and water gun available, all you have to do is lift the bucket filled with colored water and pour it over the unsuspecting neighbor nearest you and there he/she goes with colors all over and shaking the water off from his/her unrecognizable self like a wet dog.

Holi at CINI was so much fun and all kinds of methods above were successfully utilized and demonstrated with expertise and precision. We played a short game sitting in circle in the garden and I was able to share my bollywood dancing moves to my fellow colored and unrecognizable alien-like entities. Sure did able to practice VSO’s motto, “Sharing Skills, Changing Lives…”


Now the most difficult part of Holi, I realized, was the washing off of the colors before the lunch time gathering/picnic. It took me hours of scrubbing, using 4 kinds of soaps, 3 kinds of shampoos, tons of water and strained muscles, just to make myself look normal again. It wasn’t enough, I still have red and blue colors all over me. Well, I can’t miss the sumptuous Holi lunch. Thus, I went on, stopped and was shocked to see that all of them were looking normal again, as if nothing Holi had happened to them. It was so unfair and they refused to tell how they were able to do that. Still, I’m not going to give up investigating, I can find ways I am sure.